What conference situation did we miss out on? The new pac? We play most of those teams now and it's not roses. Who are you gong to miss playing? usu? suds? fresneck? usu? Maybe just me, but I honestly don't care. Now, if you're talking about missing out on big12, then yeah, we really botched it. Since bsu didn't get into the big12, I'm not sure there is a scenario where that would have been possible. Like bowl games, there aren't many great options.
Lack of winning culture (and yes obviously winning) is TB's failure and why we should have changed years ago.