Wanted to respond to the rest of your comment as well...What bothers me most is the deceit. Pac-2 looks for safety by scheduling with the MWC, agrees to a no poaching clause, and later sues to void the restriction. To me, bad faith. I'd be surprised if there wasn't some level of collusion amongst the "traitors" and the Pac-2 from the beginning. It's been hard for me not to feel that MWC got "played" by an unscrupulous Theresa Gould and desperate/angry OSU and WSU but who knows. Maybe Gloria Nevarez did all she could to entertain the Pac-2 and defend against the inevitable. To me, this isn't just about a contract dispute...how many widgets were delivered at what price and on what terms. There is arrogance, deceit, and collusion. There is also the irony of OSU and WSU being screwed by departing members...but caring less about who got screwed as remaining members of the MWC. Hypocrisy 101.
Hate is a strong word. You'll have to ask yourself why it doesn't resonate with you at higher level. But I don't wish a single good thing for programs like CSU, SDSU, BSU, USU, etc. Also, I am a little embarrassed at what the MWC has become (with Gloria Nevarez pretending "this is better!"). I cannot fathom NIU (no disrespect at all) being a MWC team (or Toledo or any other school from the Midwest). I like regional rivalries and many years ago, used to think how cool a conference with Colorado, Nebraska, BYU, Utah and the MWC teams would be (minus Hawaii due to travel). That ain't going to happen.
To answer your question, maybe the "hatred" and "vitriol" that people feel is a sense that something important to them is dying right before their eyes. All of college sports pretty much sucks. Maybe it already died for you and you just don't realize it.
In any case, screw CSU all day long.
I would have to say that the "deceit" bother's me as well...but for me it is baked in at some level. Among the mistakes made when entering in to agreements, there are two mistakes that should be avoided. One is the belief that everybody is out to screw you...and the other is that everybody has your best interests at heart. In the first example, paranoia and fear will keep you from really having great outcomes. In the second example, normal everyday people who don't care about you one way or another will constantly disappoint you when things don't work out perfectly.
I don't think that the interested parties in this whole affair are making those particular mistakes even while the commenting class (fans, twitter, podcasters) seems to make them all the time. I'm surprised by the moral outrage that folks seem to have here. I think that is because, If I imagine myself as an administrator or leader at Boise St, SDSU, or Oregon St...I would be doing a lot of the same stuff I see them doing right now. I would be prodding these agreements to find the ways in which they can be interpreted to my benefit. I assume Wyoming and the "less desirable" programs are doing the same. For me, the toughest pill to swallow has been the success of BYU relative to the fortunes at UW during my lifetime. I no longer can enjoy that rivalry. It was built on something close to equal footing that no longer exists. If that comes to pass with CSU...that will suck but it won't be because the people in charge in Fort Collins are evil and out to destroy Wyoming athletics. They are attempting to do the same thing BYU has accomplished. I don't begrudge them the attempt...I'm most upset that Wyoming has seemingly no leverage or pathway to do the same. If Wyoming had that leverage or pathway I think I'd be upset if they didn't try to leave CSU behind.